29 August 2010

Penang 2010-08-27

Friday was a public holiday! Dad had an appointment in Penang on that day. So, i get to go back to Penang too!!!!! Weeee  =D. The first thing i wanted when i am in Penang was the corn in cup and muar chee at island glades. I went there several times the last time i was in Penang, but the uncle said the corn hasn't arrived yet. And this time, finally, i get to eat my corn in cup!!!!! =D





Sorry for the lousy photography skill... (because i do not have a pro camera!)

I had chicken rice and chai boey from island glades for lunch once we reached home. Grandma bought it back for us. Yummy Yummy. =P And then corn in cup and muar chee for tea; char kuey kak and lor bak for dinner. However, i wasn't that satisfied with the dinner though... The next morning, dad went and bought wan tun mee for breakfast, while i ate some kueh bought by grandma while waiting for dad... XD Grandpa treated us lunch at Ichiyo, the usual Japanese restaurant that we used to go. After lunch, we headed back to KL again. Such a fast weekend... But i think i'll be going back again in September to enjoy more things in Penang. =D

12 August 2010

A little burst of inspiration

I eventually spotted a small tiny book titled "A little burst of inspiration" in the library just now. So, i am here to share a few stories inside this tiny little book. =)

1. Everything in life happens for a reason

It was an ordinary and peaceful Sunday morning filled with delightful childish laughter. Angela was washing some dishes in the kitchen, while her husband Tim was lounging on his favourite chair, reading newspaper, whilst the girls were frolicking around him. Although they were both 4 years old, but Carol was a lot smaller than their daughter, Emily, as she was born with heart problems. Angela watched them fondly and never once did she imagine that this blissfully happy scene could change in an instant with tragic consequences. Tim died. He was leaping into the road to save Carol, who was chasing after a bouncing ball, and then knocked by a bus. Angela felt guilty and thinks that it is not worth it to risk his life for someone else's child who is already sick and may die any day soon. She was bothered by it for 10 years. She was bitter and angry at Tim for making that decision because it meant leaving her and Emily to leave without him, although she was also proud of his heroism. Later then, Emily was diagnosed with an eye disease and would be left blind unless a donor could be found. Exactly at the same time, Carol passed away from her heart ailment and donated her corneas to Emily. This was the answer to Tim's death, Angela realised. She now understands that everything in life happens for a reason and one has to accept it and let go.

2. Control your anger

A man had just bought himself an expensive new sports car and was pround of the car. He looked after his new prize with a passion. One day, he entered his garage to polish his car. To his horror, his son was scrubbing the car with a wire brush, leaving deep and damaging scratches on his car. The man was furious. He flew into an uncontrollable rage. He grabbed the boy's hand, which had inflicted the damange to his most prized possession and pummelled them to a pulp. Only once he had calmed down did he realise the extent of his son's injuries and immediately rushed him to the hospital. All of his son's fingers had been smashed to a pulp, leaving no other option but amputation. When the boy woke up, he said:" I'm sorry daddy. It was supposed to be a Father's Day surprise. I wanted to finish cleaning before you got there but..... When will my fingers grow back so i can fix your car for you?" This man had lost a lifetime of happiness. His car could be fixed but his son could not be. It is with anger, which so often leaves a wound that may never heal, doing irrepairable damage. His son was in fact the most valuable thing, not his car, but he realised this too late. So, think before you act!

3. Practice unconditional love

It was the end of second world was. A young soldier, or more accurately a mere boy was excited about returning home to the love of his parents. His parents would also be waiting for him with open arms that saved him from despair. He excitedly called his parents to let them know he was coming home. His parents were relieved and happy. "There's just one thing i need from you", said the boy. "Anything son!", answered is parents. "I'd like to bring someone home with me" "Well, of course you can, we'd love to meet him." "Dad, but there's something you should know about my freind. He risked his life to save someone and was badly injured. He's in pretty bad shape. He lost his legs and an arm and has nowhere else to go." "That's terrible son, you can't expect us to take him in. He requires great deal of attention and financial support and he would be a burden on us too. I'm sure there are various charity organisations that may help him. Why don't you just come on home? I'm sure your friend will work something out. We just want our old son back..." And the line suddenly went dead. The following day, the boy's parents received another call, knowing that their son has passed away. They rushed to the military headquarters to identify their son and claim his body. Their son's superior officer came to pay his condolences and said :" Your son was so brave that he risked his life to save a friend and was hurt badly. He seemed to be recovering well but i don't know why he ended it like this." The boy shot himself. It was a suicide. The "friend" their son had spoken of, was in fact himself...

03 August 2010

Tolerance

No one's life is perferct from the day of birth till the day of death. Everyone faces difficulties, problems, conflicts, downturns and various sorts of obsacles in life. These obstacles are the ones that help us grow and improve, making us a better person to face the world. However, it is also important that we know the way to deal with the obstacle effectively without hurting ourselves and others too.

Family matters. Being born in a big family, it is difficult to not face any conflicts between one another, UNLESS, all of the family members do not talk! In a book named "You can heal your life" written by Louise Hay (OK, not Louis Koo XP), it is stated that we choose our parents. The lessons that we learn are actually strength and weaknesses of our parents. We learn that particular lessons for out spiritual evolution. So if you have had an argument or a fight with your parents or other family members, don't blame them, because blaming them is equal to blaming ourselves who have made that decision of being born in our family.

Sometimes, a simple event or incident might eventually burst into a big serious argument or fight. This might be due to a wrong way of structuring our words. For example, in order to ask our siblings to be quiet, one might say "SHUT UP!", but one can also say "can you please lower down your volume?". They both mean the same, which is to order another person to be quiet, but the attitudes portrayed are different. And if another party could not stand that attitude, there it goes... BOMB! >.< So, try to restructure words into a nice order to avoid uneccessary unhappiness. Tolerate with one another to result in a win-win situation.

My words for you, yea, both of you:

I know that this is a BIG issue for both of you, but just don't blame each other about whose fault was it. Accept it and fight for the right, TOGETHER. Unity is strength! Don't let outside things affect the proximate relationship between both of you. Although it's just seen as an argument, but apart from both of you, it may affect third parties as well, especially the younger ones. You wouldn't want them to see you unhappy or immitate your actions in future right? So no matter what happens, don't say something that you know will end up in a BIG argument. Try to begin or continue the conversation with love and care, and not with the mindset that "I have to win!". I really don't hope to see the down and unhappy emotions on both of your faces. That's not family, but enemies. Time will heal it, but both of you must also do something to solve the issue. Although i can't help solve that problem, but i will always be here to support!
Loves~